What is the difference being Infatuated and really liking a woman,doesn't it feel the same?

I think infatuation is border lining with stalking. Infatuation gets you into trouble...you always want to call, you stop by unannounced, you write love letters...all before she's even really displayed an interest in you. Really liking someone is the completely health reaction to meeting someone great! Just make sure you don't lose it and get weird!